Good therapy begins with good connection
Deep Relationship Excites You.
You seek deeper emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy; with yourself and with your partner.
Your life path may look non-traditional, and you want someone who sees you and can support you with care and authenticity.
You’re looking for a guide who can help you navigate life’s transitions. You want to feel more alive, more embodied. You seek someone who can connect to pleasure, humor, and joy, even in moments of darkness.
I can help.
A little about me…
I’m Sura Hertzberg, LMFT, and I help people have deeper relationships.
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I support individuals and couples in person in SF and virtually across the state of California. I am certified in KAP (ketamine assisted psychotherapy), and I work as a relationship coach globally (for more info, see the “coaching” tab). I utilize practices from EFT, IFS (parts work), Gottman, and Somatics, and have years of ongoing training in psychodynamic and psychoanalytic depth psychology.
Areas of Focus
My practice is open to folks from all walks of life. I welcome people of many identities and lived experiences, and I aim to create a space that feels affirming, curious, and culturally attuned. If something here resonates and you're wondering if we’re a good fit, I’d love to connect and explore that together.
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Communication, emotional and physical intimacy, sexuality, recurring patterns, and deeper connection
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Premarital counseling, questions about having children or next steps, relationship uncertainty, and navigating important decisions together
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Psychodynamic exploration, unconscious patterns, self-understanding, and the changing identities we inhabit
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Matrescence, changing identities, shifting partnerships, ambivalence, choosing whether or not to become a parent, and the experience of becoming a parent
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Queer and LGBTQ+ experiences, nontraditional relationships, cultural Judaism and other identities, and neurodivergence in relationships